My granny died final week. It had been sad, but it was time. She was old and sick and was ready to be with my grandpa. She was even beginning to become a little disoriented, so speak of a retirement house was starting to come back up between us members of the family. When she did die, it was peaceful and in her bed. It had been where she wanted to be which helped comfort us all a little.
Her funeral service was good. My two closes pals knew my granny and knew she experienced passed. I also called my sister and an uncle that live out of state to let them know what experienced occurred. They both seemed saddened, but okay. That was fine. The part that upset me was that none of those people experienced the common courtesy to deliver a card or flowers. I understand not going to the funeral, particularly my two pals, and also the members of the family had been so far away. Nevertheless, why wouldn’t any of them lengthen their deepest sympathies in some thing other than a simple I’m sorry for the loss? Am I becoming old fashioned? Do people do this anymore? It would have been good to see a few more flowers or vegetation at the funeral house or to obtain a card. I know I usually do that. If I know the individual who died or I am near to somebody who was impacted by the demise I'll at least deliver a card, or splurge on a pleasant plant or flowers.
Maybe I am becoming picky. I seemed to be the only individual kind of upset about this so I suppose I'll let it go. It’s not worth becoming mad at my pals or holding a grudge against my sister and uncle. I guess I'll let it go.
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